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The Best Friend

Kathy Jarvis, ex-girlfriend of Chase Merritt, shares her perspective on Chase's relationship with Joseph McStay and the events leading up to the murders.

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This episode delves into the complex relationship between Chase Merritt and Joseph McStay, as told by Kathy Jarvis, Chase's ex-girlfriend and mother of his three children. Kathy provides a unique perspective on Chase's character, his business dealings with Joseph, and the events surrounding the McStay family's disappearance and murder.

A Relationship Forged in the Desert

Kathy Jarvis and Chase Merritt met in the early 1990s and were together, on and off, for about 20 years. Despite their eventual breakup, Kathy remembers Chase as a good person, albeit a bit arrogant and goofy, with a good sense of humor. She recalls their first meeting at a country-western bar, where Chase, in a cowboy hat, accidentally hit her with a pool cue. Their instant attraction led to a long-term relationship.

Chase grew up in Hesperia, California, in the Mojave Desert, a place Kathy describes as "pretty much the middle of nowhere" in the 60s and 70s. He came from a large family of eight siblings and was seen as the reliable one. Kathy notes that some of Chase's family, including his sister Juanita, still live in the desert, near Victorville, where the McStay family's bodies were later found.

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  1. Business and Friendship: Chase and Joseph
  2. The Last Call: A Troubling Detail
  3. Interrogations and Accusations
  4. A Dangerous Confrontation
  5. Justice for the McStays
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