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Olivia Fox Cabane (on the science of charisma)

Charisma expert Olivia Fox Cabane joins Dax and Monica to discuss the science of charisma, how it can be learned, and its surprising pitfalls.

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Olivia Fox Cabane, a leading authority on the science of charisma and author of the bestselling book The Charisma Myth, joined Dax Shepard and Monica Padman on Armchair Expert to demystify charisma. Far from an innate quality, Cabane explains that charisma is a learnable skill, rooted in specific behaviors and internal states, with profound implications for personal and professional success.

Charisma: A Learnable Skill, Not an Innate Trait

Cabane challenges the common misconception that charisma is something you're either born with or not. She asserts that charisma is a science, a set of behaviors that can be learned and cultivated by anyone. "Everyone can have more of it," she states, emphasizing that it's not an either/or proposition but rather a skill that can be developed. This perspective is particularly empowering, as it suggests that the benefits of charisma—from improved relationships to career advancement—are accessible to all.

Cabane's journey into understanding charisma began with a personal quest. Diagnosed with autism later in life, she realized that her social interactions, which she had meticulously studied and practiced, were not intuitive. This unique perspective allowed her to approach charisma from an analytical standpoint, dissecting its components and identifying the behaviors that contribute to it. Her book, The Charisma Myth, is a testament to this scientific approach, offering practical tools for developing charisma.

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